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"Attention is what steers your perceptions; it's what controls your reality. It's the gateway to the mind."

Apollo Robbins

Stress: Is It All in Your Head? (Well… Kind Of!)

Have you ever found yourself spiraling into stress over something that, when you really thought about it, wasn’t that big of a deal? Maybe you panicked over a delayed email response, convinced you’d ruined a friendship because of a typo in your text ("F** you" instead of "Thank you"—we’ve all been there). The truth is, stress isn’t always about what’s happening to us but rather how we perceive it.

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This brings us to a brilliant quote by Apollo Robbins:

“Attention is what steers your perceptions; it’s what controls your reality. It’s the gateway to the mind.”

In other words, where you focus your attention determines how you experience the world. And sometimes, our attention latches onto stress like a seagull to a bread crumb—completely fixated and unwilling to let go.

So, if stress is so tied to our perception, does that mean we can just think our way out of it? Let’s break this down with a bit of humor and some real-life wisdom.

Your Brain is a Drama Queen

Picture this: You’re sitting at your desk, sipping your coffee, when your boss emails you, “Hey, can we talk?” Instantly, your heart races, your palms sweat, and your mind jumps to conclusions: Oh, for sure I’m getting fired. They found out I stole all that stationary from the supply closet!

Meanwhile, your boss probably just wants to know where you ordered that amazing food from the lunch meeting last week.

This is a classic case of perception-induced stress. Your attention focused in on the worst possible outcome, creating an alternate reality in which you were moments away from unemployment. But in reality? Totally different scenario.

The Magic Trick of Perception

Apollo Robbins, a world-famous deception expert, understands attention better than most. He knows that what you focus on shapes what you see, which means what you don’t focus on fades into the background. (Much like how your New Year’s resolutions mysteriously vanish after January, or sometimes February.)

When we stress, we often hyper-focus on one negative detail while ignoring everything else. It’s like watching a trick from a magician’s hands so closely that you miss the real illusion happening right in front of you.

The good news? You can use this knowledge to shift your perspective.

Reframing Stress: The Jedi Mind Trick You Need

If stress feeds on perception, then shifting your attention is like changing the TV channel on a chaotic news show. Here’s how you can do it:

1. Change Your Angle

Imagine your friend is running late to meet up with you. Instead of thinking, They totally don’t respect my time!, try, Maybe they are just stuck in traffic. Or maybe they’re rescuing a cat from a tree, if that still happens. Or maybe they had some car trouble.

When you change the story in your head, you change your emotional reaction.

2. Look for the Opposite Evidence

Your brain loves to get stuck to negative thoughts like Velcro. So challenge that idea! If your mind says, I’m going to fail this test, ask yourself, What if I pass? What if I actually ace it? Training your mind to see alternative outcomes can take the emotional pain out of stress.

3. Focus on the Big Picture

Five or ten years from now, will this thing stressing you out really matter? I can say probably not. (Unless it’s a tattoo of your ex’s name. Which in that case… rethink that decision.)

When you zoom out and realize how small today’s worries are in the grand scheme of things, stress really does lose its power.

Stress Happens, But You’re in the Driver’s Seat

The next time you feel stress lurking in, remember: your attention controls your reality. If you focus on chaos and destruction, you’ll feel overwhelmed. If you focus on solutions (or at least an amusing alternative), you can guide your perception in a more positive direction.

So, next time your brain jumps to many conclusions, take a deep breath and ask yourself: Am I seeing this as clearly as I should, or am I just being a seagull jumping all over bread crumbs?

Because sometimes, the difference between stress and peace is simply where you choose to look.👀

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