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                                                              Photo by F. Plastino  "When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us." Helen Keller Helen Keller's quote brings to attention the profound wisdom about resilience, perspective, and the nature of opportunities in life. Firstly, the use of doors symbolizes opportunities or pathways in life. Keller acknowledges that setbacks and disappointments inevitably occur ("when one door of happiness closes"). This reflects the common human experience of facing obstacles, failures, or losses that disrupt our sense of contentment or fulfillment. With the phrase "another one opens" suggests that although setbacks do happen, new opportunities for happiness, growth, or success will emerge. L...

                                                                      Photo by F. Plastino  “We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more in imagination than in reality.”  Seneca Seneca's quote, "We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more in imagination than in reality," highlights the psychological tendency to experience more pain and fear from our anticipations and thoughts than from actual events. This insight from the Stoic philosopher speaks volumes about human nature and the workings of the mind. Seneca suggests that our minds often magnify potential threats and create scenarios that may never come to pass. This phenomenon, known as anticipatory anxiety, can cause individuals to experience significant emotional distress in the face of uncertainty or imagined dangers. Th...

                                                                  Photo by F. Plastino    “The most important thing in life is to stop saying ‘I wish’ and start saying ‘I will’. Consider nothing impossible then treat possibilities as probabilities.”  Charles Dickens This quote brings the power of proactive thinking and determination in achieving our goals in life. It contrasts two mindsets: one that dreams without action and one that commits to making dreams a reality. “The most important thing in life is to stop saying ‘I wish’ and start saying ‘I will’” underscores the transition from passive to active. By saying "I wish" signifies a desire without a plan, an acknowledgment of what could be, but with no steps towards achieving it. It's a passive stance that leaves one's aspirations within the realm of fantas...

                                                                    Photo by F. Plastino Value attribution is an intriguing and frequently disregarded psychological phenomenon that has a big influence on everything from the decisions we make to the connections we form in our daily lives. Fundamentally, value attribution is the process by which we give something or someone a value or worth, frequently based on arbitrary or surface-level criteria. We can move swiftly through a complicated world by using this cognitive shortcut. But it can also result in serious prejudices and misconceptions. Let's examine value attribution in greater detail, along with its ramifications and ways to increase our awareness of it. The Basics of Value Attribution Human cognition is inherently capable of assigning values. Our brains quickly de...

                      Photo by F. Plastino  “The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.” Marcus Aurelius In a world where hostility and grudges often breed more of the same, the ancient wisdom of "The best revenge is not to be like your enemy" stands as a powerful guiding principle. This idea, attributed to the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius, offers a profound alternative to the cycle of retaliation. When someone wrongs us, the instinctive response is often to strike back, which then really mirrors the harm we’ve endured. However, this path creates negativity, trapping both parties in a destructive loop. If we choose not to be like your enemy it can mean rising above the instinct for revenge and embodying the virtues your adversary is lacking in. Imagine the possibility of responding to deceit with honesty, to cruelty with kindness, and to anger with calmness. By doing so, you preserve your integrity and peace of mind. This ...

                                      Photo by F. Plastino  “Life is very short and anxious for those who forget the past, neglect the present, and fear the future.” Seneca Seneca, the ancient Roman philosopher, left us with a timeless reminder: "Life is short and anxious for those who forget the past, neglect the present, and fear the future." This quote insightfully captures the essence of human existence and the common pitfalls that lead to a life filled with unnecessary anxiety and discontent. Forgetting the past often means losing the lessons it tries to teach us. Our history, both personal and collective, is rich with experiences that shape who we are and guide our decisions. Ignoring these lessons can lead to mistakes being repeated and missing the necessary opportunities for growth. By reflecting on our past, we can understand our strengths, recognize patterns, and apply wisdom to...

                                                                      Photo by F. Plastino  "The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves."  Ray Kroc "The quality of a leader is reflected in the standards they set for themselves" underscores the idea that a leader's true worth is evident in the personal benchmarks they uphold. Effective leadership is not merely about directing others or making decisions; it really fundamentally involves embodying the principles and values that one expects from their team. A leader who sets high standards for themselves can then demonstrate integrity, accountability, and commitment. These attributes to strive for inspire trust and respect among team members. When leaders hold themselves to rigorous standards, they lead by example, showing t...

                                Photo by F . Plastino          In a world where leadership is frequently misconstrued, it is imperative to re-examine and recast what true leadership entails. Many people think that being a good follower comes before being a successful leader. Although there is some truth to this idea, it oversimplifies the complexity of leadership. In its purest form, leadership goes beyond simple following. It involves creativity, bravery, vision, and the capacity to uplift and direct people toward a shared objective. This blog post explores the core of leadership and highlights the key distinctions between it and following. The Essence of Leadership At its core, inspiration and influence are the essence of leadership. The job of a leader is to establish direction, inspire followership, and mobilize them to work toward a common objective. This entails not just doing ...

                           Photo by F. Plastino   "Don't watch the clock; do what it does. Keep going." Sam Levenson In our fast-paced, productivity-obsessed world, the quote "Don't watch the clock; do what it does. Keep going." resonates to me and to us as a powerful reminder to focus on consistency and perseverance rather than the relentless ticking of time. This really  encourages us to adopt the clock's steadiness and resilience in our own lives. The essence of this quote lies in the idea of continuous effort. Clocks are a symbol of relentless forward motion. They do not falter, pause, or speed up to meet the pressures of deadlines. Instead, they move at a steady, dependable pace. By emulating this consistency, we can achieve our goals more effectively. It’s a reminder that success is often not about dramatic bursts of effort, but about sustained progress. Watching the clock can lead to anxiety and ...